Sunday, May 18, 2008

everyone will face problems

everyone will face problems.
the difference is only some are light
and some are heavy

but everyone will face both light and heavy
we can solve our problems by ourselves
but first of all, we've got to face the reality

face it that you are really facing a big problem
and you are not going to run away from it
don't you just sit down and stare in the blank
doing nothing and wait for miracles to happen
do regard problems as an oppurtunity to build up your self-esteem
it helps you to gain confidence in yourself
regard it as an experience. cos experiences helps you to change the way you think
in another word, MATURE.

secondly, a life without problems is not a life
even animals will have to face various problems
dont ever sigh when problems overcome
but instead, relax, THINK of how you going to settle it

thirdly, before you settle it, you've got to recognise it
recognise what kind of problem you're facing
is it really important in your life?
remember, NEVER BLAME OTHERS.
even if it's really their fault, put it aside first
blaming others will be your last choice

the objective is not to find whose fault was it
but what is the problem
we have to stay cool!chill!don't panic
importantly, please, put aside your EGO and PROUD
'cos everyone make mistake, including yourself

now if you are facing too much problem,
try to list down them
then you make your choice of which is the most important to settle first
with that, somehow or another, it helps you to pluck off one of your "string"
that will make your problems lighter than before
just organise those
cos when you organise, it will help you to think even deeper and smoother
rather than thinking hard with many things blocking your brain

next, again, if you are facing too much problem,
think again
who's problems are those
if it's not yours, bring it out.
don't suffocate yourself with other people's problems
when you yourself are in deep trouble
never ever think of running away from problems
IF IT'S YOUR PROBLEM, FACE IT WITH FULL CONFIDENCE
never afraid of making a mistake
cos you can still stand up and learn from mistake
the way of you think, will change simultaneously
but of cos, try not to repeat the same mistake


tiada silapnya mempunyai masalah
masalah adalah perkara normal dalam kehidupan manusia.
Malah, orang yang tidak bermasalah sebenarnya mempunyai masalah
Masalahnya, dia tidak mempunyai masalah.
Oleh itu, setiap kali kita ditimpa masalah dan kesukaran, ingatlah, hari ini berjuta orang ditimpa masalah dan kita adalah salah seorang daripadanya.
Oleh itu, apa masalahnya?


with love,
____` DIRA SHAMYRAH.

Posted by `aYmerOn at 5:08 PM